Dating with a married man
The second man might be the right one to date only that you have not invested enough time in him.
It has only been three months of dating, which is not enough to enable you to make a wise decision.
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Relationships are difficult enough when you get involved with someone who only has eyes for you. But they’ve got a lot more security than those having an affair.
We discussed this before we began our relationship and he said he would marry me as his second wife.
However, I felt like he was intimidated by my ambitions. The second guy is also in his mid-thirties and I have been seeing him for three months now. He is nice to me and not intimidated by my ambitions, but I don't feel like I can be myself around him.
Love just ain’t at all easy – it takes constant work, dedication, understanding, intelligence, compassion and courage to make it work. Most of the time married people can expect their spouse to be around, to show up, to be a part of the relationship now and in the future.
If you feel they could help sort things out you should definitely approach them.
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Sure, maybe he’s keeping you around in case option number one doesn’t work out. So be careful what you expect, as you may be let down. I mean, technically, even married people have no absolute guarantees. People actually do stop loving each other and separate sometimes.
Whatever you are, you are, at best, his number two option. If he’s just gotten out of a bad relationship, one that suffocated him or stymied him or depressed or angered him, he isn’t likely to be immediately looking for more of the same level of commitment.