Too shy online dating
It certainly looks like a collective problem at this point, as if they are all finding the same few things wrong with me. I haven't had one person anywhere say "let's see your profile," or anything like that. And props for being smart/realistic enough to know that life/love don't always work out nicely for everyone like the world says it will.It's like I could be telling you I put up a picture of sliced ham as my only picture, and you'd be saying "that's not the problem," etc. Stick to offline, let them get to know the real you. Do you have to get ripped and take your shirt off for dating success?So I could say these women online and in real life were truthful, which is what I usually believe (although now I'm re-evaluating that.) Or I could say they were You don't mean I have to be ripped with my shirt off to get anywhere, do you? Would it make me to shallow if I said that's fine with me? And by "you" I mean people in general - not you specifically.Also, in reference to someone's earlier post about guys suggesting that he bulk up and take a pic with his shirt off...That fierce commitment makes it hard to walk away if the relationship isn't right for you."As a 20 year old, you're obviously an adult and capable of making your own decisions.However, it would be a good idea to hear your mother out regarding why she doesn't think this is a good match. Once you feel a connection with someone and would like to meet up, decide on a safe, public space to get together for a friendly date.
in the future, when someone is shy or a loser, it's a better idea that you tell these "shy loser guys" just to give up and stare at the wall.. Also, in reference to someone's earlier post about guys suggesting that he bulk up and take a pic with his shirt off... It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.
So some guys on here say they can message 20 women on a dating site, and get 19 responses.
This is extremely foreign to me, and I don't know what you're doing right, but it's almost unfair.
No, I mean there is an abundance of wang so you are always thrown into a competition which can seriously damage your self-esteem, and for what? No..I guarantee that it would help...a lot, and anybody (woman or man) who says any different is lying to you through their teeth/keyboard.
That doesn't mean give up, it just means that the righteous and fair strategy will lose the game...you wanna win, you have no choice but to become what you don't respect.